Thursday, March 8, 2012

Sophie's Birthday - Part I

We make a big deal about birthdays, around here. We celebrated Sophie's seventeenth this morning by waking her up.



Henry and Oliver blew up the most magnificent balloons that I'd bought a month or two ago. They're a sort of paisley/peacock style.


I love blurry photos --



Oliver helps Sophie get ready to eat breakfast -- fresh pineapple and cinnamon buns




The goofball siblings


Pay no mind to the sleepy woman in the apple robe behind the birthday girl.




Cupcake Extravaganza (for her class party)




Part 2: Class Party, stay tuned.

Sophie is Seventeen - A Birthday Teaser


(more photos later)

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

OMG

Wilshire Blvd., Full Moon in eastern sky

(and this photo in no way does that thing justice)

Retard


Got your attention?

Good. May that be the last time you see the word displayed so prominently.

Today is the annual Spread the Word to End the Word Day. I've said enough about it, so I'm not going to say anything else. Read this for some perfectly perfect remarks about the word.


And read this, an essay that my ten year old son Oliver wrote all by himself as his submission to the No Name Calling Week contest:



 RETARDED” AND WHAT DOES IT MEAN?

By Oliver 

The word “retarded.” What is its beauty and what is its downside and what does it mean? The question remains. When I get home from school, I wonder to myself about some of my friends and just anyone in general who says the word “retarded” whether they really know what that word means. And all the times when they say it, are they sure that they know what it means and are they sure that when they say it, they are not hurting anyone's feelings around them? The question remains. People think the word “retarded” means dumb, stupid and lots more hurtful things. All of those words hurt my feelings because my sister is cognitively disabled, which means it's harder for her to learn than it is for people with a normal brain. She can't walk without help and can't talk either, but that doesn't mean she's stupid or dumb. She stills knows how to think and interact with other people; she is just different. When people use the word “retarded” as a put-down or a joke, it hurts me and my sister and all the people like her. I wish they would stop.

Tuesday, March 6, 2012

poetry instead of Rush

Even I'm getting tired of all this brouhaha over Rush and his vile comments. There are people in my neighborhood, minor television celebrities who are getting in trouble now for nasty Tweets. He was just trying to be funny, apologists will say about Rush. She's really a nice person; it's her politics that aren't, one of my friends said about the minor celebrity. Anywho. I grabbed the February 23rd issue of The New York Review of Books and felt a frisson (how's that for pretentious) when I opened it to The New World of William Carlos Williams, a review of three new books about the great modernist American poet with a great big photo of the dear man on the first page.



I just quoted from one of Williams' poems the other day on this blog because my dog-eared copy of one of his books of poetry is one of my favorites. What synchronicity! What serendipity! What does this have to do with Rush? Well, about halfway through this five million word article, when I was well on my way to a happy oblivion, I read that Williams was notoriously insecure and perhaps even insanely jealous of his more famous poetic colleagues -- the Ezra Pounds and H.D.s, especially the T.S. Eliots. When he left his home of Rutherford, New Jersey (where he worked as a general practitioner, serving a poor and immigrant population) for a visit to Paris with his wife in 1924, he evidently felt paranoid and certain he was being scorned by the likes of Pound and H.D. And still, what does this have to do with Rush? Well, really, not much except that when commenting about his fellow poet T.S. Eliot, Williams wrote Maybe I'm wrong but I distrust that bastard more than any writer I know in the world today. He then compared Eliot's work to moles on a pig's belly instead of tits. I laughed out loud when I read that. I never really got into Eliot's poetry like I did Williams, and I thought how nice it would be if someone out in the ether could say something that perfectly cutting about a person like Rush.

So, there you go. Poetry instead of Rush.

Listen to this:

To a Poor Old Woman

and this:

The Widow's Lament in Springtime

and read this:


I

By the road to the contagious hospital
under the surge of the blue
mottled clouds driven from the
northeast-a cold wind.  Beyond, the
waste of broad, muddy fields
brown with dried weeds, standing and fallen

patches of standing water
the scattering of tall trees

All along the road the reddish
purplish, forked, upstanding, twiggy
stuff of bushes and small trees
with dead, brown leaves under them
leafless vines-

Lifeless in appearance, sluggish
dazed spring approaches-

They enter the new world naked,
cold, uncertain of all
save that they enter.  All about them
the cold, familiar wind-

Now the grass, tomorrow
the stiff curl of wildcarrot leaf
One by one objects are defined-
It quickens:  clarity, outline of leaf


But now the stark dignity of
entrance-Still, the profound change
has come upon them:  rooted, they
grip down and begin to awaken


-- from Spring and All


and think about this:

No ideas but in things --


William Carlos Williams, from Paterson

Monday, March 5, 2012

On my way to being darling and appSmitten

I posted the great Dorothy Parker's quote the other day:


Well, as you might guess from the looks of the blog, I have a few ads running here and there and I get the chance every now and then to plug some product or something or other that I actually like. Right now through BlogHer, I'm participating as an affiliate with a company called appSmitten which hand-selects the best apps out there for your iPhone, Android or iPad and sends you a newsletter with the recommendations directly to your inbox. I believe that finding good apps is sort of like finding a needle in a haystack (to use a trite expression), and I have to say that I'm impressed by this company and look forward to seeing what they're going to find for me. You can customize how you receive the recommendations, so you're not bombarded with information night and day. They even have recommendations for kids.

The best part about this?

If you sign up for the newsletter right HERE, I get compensated for it. That's right. I get $1 per new subscriber.

If a million of you subscribe, then you just know, I'll be the most darling person on the internet.

Monday memory



That plaintive cry, asphodel, that greeny flower, a hotel in Hartford, the seventh floor and when I opened the door, my hair wet the years began. We fell through woods and into a musty theater, the skinny boy in the chicken house screamed and I woke up in the bathtub of a motel, the water falling your arm smooth and hairless, a Cheshire cat smile, the open road, paper-thin letters, onanistic and back to the north, our bed a swaying single boat with oars that rested still

Standing by the well,
wishing for the rain,
Reaching to the clouds,
For nothing else remains.


Drifting in a daze when evening will be done
Try looking through a haze
At an empty house in the cold, cold sun


I will wait until it all goes round,
With you in sight the lost are found.

Sunday, March 4, 2012

Terra Cotta Warriors



The boys and I took a trip down to Santa Ana yesterday afternoon with some friends and walked around the Bowers Museum Warriors, Tombs and Temples: China's Enduring Legacy exhibit. Despite the crowds, the show was mesmerizing -- I'm always awestruck by culture preserved for thousands and thousands of years.  The exhibition features the famous life-size terra cotta warriors who protected China's first emperor -- I believe more than 7,000 of them were found, standing in formation around the tomb along with thousands of other figures and objects; the mausoleum complex is "considered the eighth wonder of the world." 





The photo I took just above shows some of the figures that were buried with the dead, along with other animals, female and male attendants and household goods, to serve them in the next life. They were called minqi or "bright vessels" -- referring both to the artifacts themselves and to the brilliance of the spirit world.

I love the notion of the spirit world being brilliant. 

Tang Dynasty (618-649 CE)
The filigreed tree I snapped a photo of above was one of my favorite pieces in the exhibit -- the photo obviously does it little justice. Made of gold, it was so delicate and beautiful, an ornament that represented the tree under which The Buddha sat. There was such detail and fineness to it -- again, I was awestruck by the artistry and age.

My other favorite piece was a large Medicine Buddha from 626-649 CE who evidently granted health and wishes. He was representative of the cosmic Buddhas in the Mahayana tradtion, and I know I took a photo of him but it mysteriously disappeared from my phone. I'm not taking that as an omen, but for the record, knock on wood, three times.

Saturday, March 3, 2012

Baseball Season Opening, Samuel Johnson and Conversation



Henry had to get up at 6:45 this morning and head over to the park for his opening baseball season game. I'm going over there, momentarily, but while I sipped my coffee this morning, I read snippets of Stephen Kuusisto's Do Not Interrupt, a neat book of essays on "the art of conversation." In one chapter, Kuusisto includes this quote from the great Samuel Johnson, written in 1751:

After the exercises which the health of the body requires, and which have themselves a natural tendency to actuate and invigorate the mind, the most eligible amusement of a rational being seems to be that interchange of thoughts which is practiced in free and easy conversation; where suspicion is banished by experience, and emulation by benevolence; where every man speaks with no other restraint then unwillingness to offend, and hears with no other disposition than desire to be pleased.
The other night, I walked around Westwood Village with one of my oldest and dearest friends in lieu of going to a performance at Royce Hall. It was a beautiful night; we'd eaten a delicious dinner and I had had a beer or two; there was nothing better than walking around and laughing, so when we sat on a bench for a bit and did some people-watching, our conversation turned toward the horrible antics of the Rush Limbaughs of the world, the Rick Santorums and the social conservatives, those who whine about wanting their country back, the hyper-religious, the America is the greatest country on earth sorts. We talked about the sudden death of Andrew Breitbart and how difficult it was to mourn a man who used lying as a weapon in his discourse. We wondered, too, why Rush Limbaugh didn't just drop dead. We asked each other, like the moderator at the latest Republican debate did, what word we'd use to describe ourselves (right after cracking up about Newt Gingrich's cheerful) -- my friend made a nasty reference to anatomy about himself, and I said unbearably and utterly gorgeous. We laughed some more and then he suggested persevere for me and provocative.


Provocative. I've been thinking about that word for a couple of days and there's a kind of synchronicity in my reading that particular snippet in Kuusisto's book. I'm afraid I am more provocative in conversation than benevolent, particularly when it comes to politics and certain viewpoints. I wonder whether I should rather talk with no other restraint then unwillingness to offend.


That's what I'm going to think about when I watch my beautiful son swing his bat.

Friday, March 2, 2012

Random Los Angeles

Storefront, Beverly Hills





Our Lady of the Dry Tree

This was the image on my desk calendar yesterday morning:



It was painted in 1462 by the Belgian Petrus Christus and is titled Our Lady of the Dry Tree. I was struck by the name and when I ripped it off the calendar and peered closely, I wondered at the weird little things hanging from the thorns that look like letters and admired the jewel-like red and blue of the madonna's robes. As usual, the face of the baby Jesus is creepy (why is this always so?), but if you enlarge the painting on the computer, the beauty of Mary's face is astonishing. There's an interesting story behind Our Lady of the Dry Tree, which was the name of a confraternity, typical during the Middle Ages and Renaissance. These were groups of friends and members, often secret, that engaged in cultural and charitable activities, and Our Lady of the Dry Tree holds particular symbolism and mystery. It presented the message of the Redemption unique to any other painting in art history.  Here's what a fascinating website, called The Secret History of Art says:


The iconography is inspired by the Book of Ezekiel, wherein the Prophet Ezekiel says, “I the Lord have dried up the green tree, and have made the dry tree to flourish.”  Theologians interpret this as a reference to Original Sin, with Mary replacing Eve as the “mother of the world.”  Eve, in the Garden of Eden, was once the “green tree,” flowering and flourishing.  But God made her wither and instead granted favor to the dry tree (Mary as a childless woman), allowing her to bring forth fruit from her womb. 


If you're interested, you can read more about it here. I'm not sure why I was so struck by this little painting (it's tiny -- only five inches or so) -- I think, though, that it made me wonder why we have to listen to so much warped and twisted ugliness when we talk about religion nowadays. I know that there was some serious warped and twisted ugliness surrounding religion in the Middle Ages, but the art and beauty and mystery that sprang from belief gives me solace, in a way. There is much relief, at least for me, in the contemplation of so much mystery and awe. 


I think I must do more turning away from the obscene spokespersons of faith today and fall into art and free expression to really experience the divine.

Thursday, March 1, 2012

Smashed Windows


The Husband walked back into the house this morning and told me that the passenger window of my car had been smashed to bits. I said Really? in just that tone that the word suggests and then I walked outside and down the steps to the driveway where I stood at the car and peeled off a few bluish shivers of glass and let them crumble to the ground. It doesn't look like they stole anything, The Husband added, and I agreed. The boys circled the car, amazed and titillated at random crime, I went back into the house to deal with Sophie and The Husband left with Oliver to take him to school. He came back to pick her up and take her to school despite having a late morning event he needed to cater. I found a place to fix the window, lay a towel over the pile of glass in the front seat and drove west on Pico Blvd then south on La Cienega. I travel this way at least four times a week, but I had never noticed the auto place or the coffee shop that the man recommended I go to while I wait despite the fact that both had been there for nearly fifty years. I sat at the counter and ordered blueberry pancakes and crispy bacon with a cup of coffee and read a tiny version of The Family Fang on my phone.  The blueberry pancakes were excellent, and I had whole milk in my coffee. Two hours later, the car was fixed and I paid the owner $237.00. The Husband said his luncheon went well.  Neither he nor I had lost our marbles that morning but had, apparently, resigned ourselves to smashed windows.


More paradox, sex and politics and witches, but no rock and roll or drugs

Examination of a Witch, in Salem, Massachusetts, 1692


Your modern Republican Party has decided that a one percent increase in taxes for multi-millionaires is an impeachment-worthy high crime, but the state-mandated insertion of an electronic device into the vaginas of women who are ostensibly struggling with the most difficult moments of their adult lives is a perfectly acceptable exercising of government power. 

-- Bob Cesca

What does it say about the college coed Susan [sic] Fluke, who goes before a congressional committee and essentially says that she must be paid to have sex? What does that make her? It makes her a slut, right? It makes her a prostitute. She wants to be paid to have sex. She's having so much sex she can't afford the contraception. She wants you and me and the taxpayers to pay her to have sex. What does that make us? We're the pimps.

-- Rush Limbaugh to his 15 million strong radio audience

Staying Alive

Henry, disco'd up in an old white suit of mine
Spirit Week - Decades (70s)

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