Got your attention?
Good. May that be the last time you see the word displayed so prominently.
Today is the annual Spread the Word to End the Word Day. I've said enough about it, so I'm not going to say anything else. Read this for some perfectly perfect remarks about the word.
And read this, an essay that my ten year old son Oliver wrote all by himself as his submission to the No Name Calling Week contest:
“RETARDED” AND WHAT DOES IT
MEAN?
By Oliver
The word “retarded.” What is its beauty and what is
its downside and what does it mean? The question remains. When I get
home from school, I wonder to myself about some of my friends and
just anyone in general who says the word “retarded” whether they
really know what that word means. And all the times when they say it,
are they sure that they know what it means and are they sure that
when they say it, they are not hurting anyone's feelings around them?
The question remains. People think the word “retarded” means
dumb, stupid and lots more hurtful things. All of those words hurt my
feelings because my sister is cognitively disabled, which means it's
harder for her to learn than it is for people with a normal brain.
She can't walk without help and can't talk either, but that doesn't
mean she's stupid or dumb. She stills knows how to think and interact
with other people; she is just different. When people use the word
“retarded” as a put-down or a joke, it hurts me and my sister and
all the people like her. I wish they would stop.
It bothers me to no end when my kids ( some of whom are adults!) still use this word. I point it out every time.
ReplyDeleteAnd will continue .
I know them enough to know that they don't mean to be hurtful but still. No excuse.
Great job Oliver!
ReplyDeleteA standing ovation to Oliver!
ReplyDeleteWell said Oliver!
ReplyDeleteBest,
Bonnie
I love you Oliver.And your sister.
ReplyDeleteJust read this to my boys before they head out the door this morning, hoping they too will continue to speak up for their sister, your sister and everyone else like them. Yes, different but never, ever lesser than.
and what i have learned here and thank you for it.
ReplyDeleteSo perfectly said!
ReplyDeleteHow old is Oliver? I love him!! I love his use of 'the question remains'...
ReplyDeleteYou are raising such fine human beings, Elizabeth.
bravo, oliver. and your whole family. thank you.
ReplyDeleteHUMANITARIAN : " a person concerned with or seeking to promote human welfare" , that's Oliver, a young humanitarian.
ReplyDeleteWell done, Oliver !
Bless you and that boy you are raising so well. Bless Sophie. She is a teacher for all of us.
ReplyDeleteWonderfully written by Oliver...he is one of the few among us all who really "gets it!" You must be so very proud of him...sadly, there are too many people in the world who don't have a clue or live in a state of "perpetual adoration of denial."
ReplyDeleteWay to go Oliver!
ReplyDeleteBless that boy's heart, and you for developing such compassion in him. Rock on Oliver!
ReplyDeletei love the expression on his face--so nurturing, caring. you got some really cool kids there, elizabeth!
ReplyDeleteHe is his mother's son.
ReplyDeleteEach one, teach one. Wow.
ReplyDeleteDear Oliver - that is so well said! What a strong young man and brother you are to your darling sister. I have never personally met you or Sophie, but through your Mom's blog (and her writing) I have come to know her as a beautiful and sensitive girl - with as much - or more love and courage in her heart - than many other people I know. And, I must add, I have come to know you as a funny, talented, loving and essential ingredient in your beautiful family. Keep writing. Keep talking. People are listening
ReplyDeleteGood for you, Oliver. Nicely done.
ReplyDeleteThe Bog O rocks the house again.
ReplyDeleteRIGHT ON, Oliver. What a beautiful essay.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday to Sophie tomorrow! I will be thinking of both of you (Mama & Baby Girl). God bless you - I hope it's a wonderful day of celebration.
Oliver is the Mac Daddy! Well said.
ReplyDeleteLove. To all of you, and especially to Oliver for his essay.
ReplyDeleteOliver said it so well!
ReplyDeleteAlso love that Elie Wiesel quote on your sidebar.
I want to give Oliver a big hug and tell him what a beautiful essay he wrote. I want to tell him how proud I am and I know how proud his family is.
ReplyDeleteI'm not family or anyone he knows but what I do know is the power of words and thoughts and his rang loud and clear.
Eloquent words from Oliver. (And I wish they would stop, too.)
ReplyDeleteI don't like the word either. Oliver rocks.
ReplyDeleteI love his writing and I love the photo of him working with Sophie on the iPad. Such lovely children you are raising. They will change the world someday. You know that, right?
ReplyDeleteAs Ms. Moon said, Sophie is indeed a teacher for us all. It seems the word "retarded" is making a resurgence. For a while it was pretty much banished, but now I hear it occasionally. Not sure why that is, and I hope Oliver's sentiments make some inroads against it.
ReplyDeleteKids tend to throw around the word "gay" in much the same way, which is one of my pet peeves!
I didn't comment earlier, but I haven't forgotten this post. I'm sorry to say I grew up using "retarded", but I don't use it anymore, and neither will my daughters. I have so much hope for these new generations, and judging by your Oliver here, my hope is not misplaced.
ReplyDeleteHe sounds like a poet! The question remains. Wow. Wonderful kid.
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