Sophie has been working with and playing with her iPad for nearly a year, now, and the going is rough and inconsistent, but there are times when it all bursts forth, when those neurons connect and don't spark or combust but rather hum with illumination. Yesterday was one of those days when Sophie got home from school and collapsed onto her bed, pulling her legs up under her Indian-style. Oliver lay across the foot of the bed with all his papers from his first day of school, chattering to me about what he did and what they were going to be doing. When he stopped talking for a moment I wondered aloud what Sophie's day might have been like and then got up to get her iPad to find out. Sometimes, when her aide remembers to, she'll record Sophie's "day" into the iPad so that Sophie can "tell" me. Yesterday, probably because of the chaos of the first day, she did not, so I went to the YES NO screen.
Basically, this is a screen with two boxes, one green and the other red, that say YES and NO. When you swipe or tap the YES, you hear yes, and when you swipe or tap the NO, you hear no.
Got it?
YES NO
And can I tell you that we had a real conversation yesterday? It was a conversation that inspired Oliver to stop chattering, look over at us in utter amazement and yell,
Sophie, you're on fire!
Here's a bit of it:
Me: Sophie, did you have a good day at school today?
Sophie: Yes
Me: Did you see your friends?
Sophie: Yes
Me: Was it hot today?
Sophie: Yes
Me: Is Henry in the room right now?
Sophie: No
This is when Oliver looked up.
Me: Is Oliver in the room right now?
Sophie: Yes
Me: Is Valentine a cat?
Sophie: No
Oliver is sitting up now, his eyes as round as saucers.
Me: Are you smart, Sophie?
Sophie: Yes
Sophie, you're on fire!
Wow, wow, WOW!!!! How unbelievably cool is that?!
ReplyDeleteGO, SOPHIE, GO!!
So what's new? :)
ReplyDeleteThat made me laugh and cry. What beautiful and good things technology can do.
ReplyDeleteReceptive language might get a little muddy, I think, when we are jabbering away doing more talking than listening.
But yes, like Julia said. How cool is that!!!
Big, big smile on my face!!
ReplyDeleteBest,
Bonnie
Woo-hoo!!!
ReplyDeleteThere you go! How exciting!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteWow, that bought a smile and tears to my eyes! Those are some powerful small words!
ReplyDeleteHow wonderful! Hallelujah!
ReplyDeleteThat truly made me smile...and feel happy for Sophie!
ReplyDeleteBRILLIANT!
ReplyDeleteThink about how much is inside our kiddos that simply never gets conveyed!
Thanks for sharing. Great image of you all lying there together. xo
I love it!
ReplyDeleteIt's the 21st century version of Helen Keller at the water pump with Anne Sullivan! So cool.
ReplyDeleteOh my!! That is freakin' AWESOME!!
ReplyDeleteWow and wow. This post made my day.
ReplyDeleteOh dear Elizabeth. I can't even imagine how this feels. But I think it must feel amazing.
ReplyDeleteI am so exhilarated reading this! And I love what Oliver said. My thoughts exactly!
ReplyDeleteShe found a way out. Lovely.
ReplyDeleteAre those freaking iPads awesome or what?? See why we are doing what we are doing??This, this conversation, this beautiful, amazing conversation is what Mission iPossible is all about!!
ReplyDeleteHoping one day, that me and the little love can do our own chit-chatting. I will wait for the day with bated breath.
Needing that walk on the beach.Badly. Will be missing lunch. Sad about that but knowing that Miss Z might put a crimp in the mommy solo time for some.
Which app do you have the yes ,no on?
How absolutely wonderful.
ReplyDeleteThat's breathtaking.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely FABULOUS! Way to go, Sophie!!
ReplyDeleteThis is so absolutely thrilling and wonderful. Hurrah for Sophie! And the iPad--a new world opens. I love it.
ReplyDeletethis is bringing tears of joy to my eyes...
ReplyDeleteoh, elizabeth, this is pure grace. thank you for sharing it.
ReplyDeleteI am covered head-to-toe in goosebumps! How awesome is it that, just as I was writing my "communication" blog post, you were engaged in some ON FIRE communication with Sophie? I love that this is possible! This connection, this ability to express. I am so thrilled for Sophie. It must feel amazing to get her point across.
ReplyDeleteOh AWESOME!!!!!
ReplyDeleteOh Elizabeth, that's the best poetry I've read in ages! Congratulations to all of you.
ReplyDeleteThis is the best thing I've read in weeks.
ReplyDeleteSeriously.
Give her a hug or a kiss or something from me. She made my week.
(You too.)
xo
burn, baby, burn. love.
ReplyDeleteWow .... That is beyond fire .... More like a bright burning hot star
ReplyDeleteThis makes my day!
ReplyDeleteWhen I read this a few days ago, I was not able to comment, but I have been thinking of it ever since. I loved this post, and I am so grateful to you for writing it to share with us. I think of you guys often.
ReplyDeletejust catching up after a crazy week. I love this post. I live this post. I love Oliver's reactions - all of them from paying attention to widening his eyes to shouting encouragement. That is the key. Its communication when someone ELSE gets it. Sophie is on fire and Oliver is too.
ReplyDeleteWhat a poignant moment you've captured. Your boys sound like such adorable, compassionate young men. Oliver's sincere and tremendous joy for his sister is so touching.
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